Sibling Support

For those who do not know,  I have a ‘secret’ group on facebook just for post abortive siblings. A place where they can go and chat with others who have been through similar, etc. We are not counselors, and we are open to any religion, political view, etc. If you are interested, send me a message […]

Just To Be Clear

I’ve had a few people lately telling me not all women regret their abortions. So I just wanna make clear that by sharing my reflections and info about sibling pain, etc I don’t expect ALL people to suffer over this issue (or feel comfortable acknowledging it), but wanna bring awareness to the fact that many do […]


Lately, I’ve been seeing a lot more posts from my friends on facebook who are expecting. Several all at once. And I hear about how the siblings are looking forward to meeting the youngest, etc. I rejoice with them :) Sincerely. But at the same time, I know lots of women who have miscarried, or […]

Prayers Of Reparation

I know not all who read this blog are Christians, so I rarely post things directed renat one group or another, but today I wanted to post some powerful links for those who are interested. I ask that if you choose to comment, you do so respectfully, no matter your views. To this point, thankfully, […]

Fatherless Father’s Day

For my siblings and me, this is Father’s Day number 20 without our father present. He passed away just 10 days before Father’s Day (that year, though his death anniversary can fall as early as 6 days before, as is happening this year). Despite the fact that we’ve all come a pretty long way on […]

Chilling Dream

This was shared with me tonight, by a sibling friend, and I am so thankful for the permission to share it here: I had a dream that i was an ob nurse helping with an abortion and looked down to see my mother was the patient. I knew immediately that I had suddenly traveled back in […]

Sibling Day

So I found out partway in that it was sibling day today. Oops! It’s kind of bittersweet for me, thinking of the one that is not with us, as well as those who are only children, lost their sibs, or have bad relationships with them. But, it was also filled with blessings, hanging around with […]